Cannon to the right of them
Cannon to the left of them
Cannon in front of them
Volleyed and thundered
Stormed at with shot and shell
Boldly they rode and well
Into the jaws of death
Into the mouths of Hell
Rode the six hundred
Too many mornings to count while I was growing up this is what I heard being not recited, but declaimed by my mother as she fixed scrambled eggs, toast, and frozen OJ for breakfast.
“Was there a man afraid? “ Yes. Four of us who knew this was the morning wake up call. And we better be up or fixin’ to be.
I had no idea where this and all the other poetry she knew by heart came from. Only later did she tell me that at Manchester High School in Manchester Iowa learning the greats by heart and reciting them ; Wordsworth Frost Tennyson et al was part of the English curriculum in her time.She must have been a good student cause she had dozens of them on speed dial.
Many years before she died this July 31st at age 98 that voice had been taken by age and illness, but I still can hear it. “Into the valley of death, rode the six hundred”
I can also hear her talking about the last Opera she saw or listened to on the radio. “ I liked Pavarotti in that role better than x. And “when I was at the Met I saw Domingo with Sutherland in X.
Although she couldn’t carry a tune in the proverbial bucket she loved opera,musicals,and choral music. My love of musicals and appreciation for Opera came from her. She made me go to Town Theatre to see Guys and Dolls in my early teens. I loved it. And music has been a large part of my life since then.(except for choral music unadorned by a plot or staging. That still leaves me cold)
Despite her very frugal mindset, (is it okay to say Scotch? ), she found the money to pay for accordion lessons for me for several years. But god help you if you missed a prepaid lesson. I once did a jail break from an after school detention imposed by an overzealous (okay I was most likely guilty as charged) nun so I could walk the few blocks to my lesson. The wrath of Kathryn , an Episcopalian , would have been worse than anything Sister Timothy Marie could have dealt. And when the good sister called to report my transgression, my mother backed my play.
She loved reading. And once told my wife that given a choice between cleaning the house and reading, the book not the vacuum always won. While my wife does clean the house, it was the books that brought them together. On her visits to the upper Midwest the two of them could talk for hours about what they were reading.They both loved a good cozy mystery and could both almost quote C.S. Lewis word for word.
She had definite opinions on many things and could be a total snob at times. She did not suffer fools. Thank you Mother for passing on that trait.(white tee shirts should be worn with a “real” shirt over it. Not alone. (Ask Pete Darling about this).
However when her children made mistakes or lapses in judgement, she might voice her (disapprove, but always come to their aid if said lapse needed her help.
Too many examples to tell but there was the time in my misspent 20’s and early 30’s when she kept my crazy Golden Retriever for me for several months because my housing situation was,shall we say, situational. We both laughed about it later..well she sort of smiled anyway.
She told me once that really all she wanted was to be loved and needed and to raise her children well. Despite the financial and personal struggles she did just that.
All four of us loved her and needed her.
Godspeed Mama. I love you.
Johnny